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Should You Invite the Kids to the Shower?

December 16, 2010

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Proper Baby Shower etiquette has evolved in recent years. No longer is it only permissible to invite women to a shower, today men are invited and sometimes it’s a family-friendly event. Most people will be fine with having kids at a shower they attend. You should, however make that fact clear on the invitation so that no one is surprised to see the kids there. If you do intend to incorporate kids into the even there are things to consider. Most importantly as the baby shower planner, you must make sure the expectant parents are on board with the idea. If not, then it is best to reconsider. Recruit the help of someone to supervise the kids during the event. Even though the kids will be included in some of the shower games, it is a good idea to give then a separate craft project or maybe their own game to play. This helps occupy them for at least a short time and allows the adults to get a short break during the event.

A shower can be a family-friendly event

If you are considering opting for a family friendly affair, the planning process has to include special provisions for your little guests. Make sure that you remember to think about the kids when planning the following:

• Menu – Plan on some finger foods for the little ones, and maybe opt for cupcakes instead of a traditional cake.
• Party favors – Remember to choose child safe party favors to give away, or have separate favors for the kids.
• Games – Incorporate some baby shower games which are appropriate for the kids to play into the event.
• Location – Consider a more family friendly setting, such as a cookout or picnic.
• Length –Set a time limit for the party, which keeps in mind, the fact that kids will be in attendance.

A shower can be a family-friendly event for all. Just keep in mind that when you include children, the planning process may take a little more creativity. If you are looking for shower games for younger guests a quick internet search will help give you some really great ideas.